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And how about yours? Are you using the same lineage? Saida Desilets: I studied with Taoist teacher, Mantak Chia, as well as other teachers, so the lineage that I use is a traditional Taoist lineage that incorporates sexual energy into its meditations and practices.ĭr. In terms of sexual practice, in terms of sexual practice polarity’s really important, and the two poles that we work with, at least in our lineage, is the heart fire and the sexual waters and how those two poles interface and connect is, will determine whether or not a person has a lot of orgasmic experience, a lot of love or nothing.ĭr. It’s that wonderful paradox that lives in all of us, in all of life. So this is what I love about polarity it’s about accepting that we’re human and divine. We see a separation, we see night and day and weak and strong and… But we need that relationship, for me to know joy I also need to know pain. Saida Desilets: Well I think it, through the Taoist lens, the most common polarity would be yin and yang, and those are actually the same energy, so they’re different expressions of the same energy. Well these principles of polarity, they go back a long way, don’t they? So could you tell us a little bit about the origin of the concept of polarity? So it’s, bring it to a conscious level.ĭr. So they can have a long relationship and keep the juice and keep the polarity strong. And for most people it’s something that just comes and goes, but in what we teach and what we’re about is allowing people to harness the understanding of polarity so they can strengthen it consciously and on a daily basis and know what those ingredients, what that entails so it’s not just left to fate, you know. It’s all of nature’s driven by this magnetism, laws of attraction and things coming together to create new things, and we have our own experience as humans in, we have our own experience of polarity, and it’s most evident in relationship between men and women, and the force that attracts two people together can either be very strong or can be sort of not so strong or it can be downright non existent, even though people may be married or officially going out, they might not have any polarity at all, so… So polarity to me is like an essential ingredient that will keep any relationship thriving. What my vision of polarity is? Well I think, you know, it’s a force that I see, you can see evident in all of nature. Patti Taylor: Ooh, so succulence and presence. And for the man he would be magnetizing and amplifying his essential nature, which I like to call presence.ĭr. So it’s, for me as a woman if I’m looking at relationship, I would be magnetizing and amplifying my sensual nature as a woman, which is succulence. Polarity for me is the ability to have a magnetic field between yourself and another within yourself. With that, lets gets started, and I think the great question to start with is what is polarity?
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Well lets find out how we can build the kind of turn on and polarity for healthy sense of balance within ourselves and with others that will enable us to have amazing relationships. She is also the creator of a CD and DVD on energy cultivation. Saida Desilets, PhD, is the renowned founder of the Desilets Method and she is the author of the book, The Immergence of the Sensual Woman. Well let me tell you a little bit about our guests. Saida Desilets: Hi Patricia, wonderful to be here.ĭr. So I’d like to welcome our guest today, Saida. So let me ask you something: have you ever wondered why some people are more turned on than others? Why are they glowing in the dark? Why are they sighing and weeping and thrilling at every little thing? Are these people having amazing sex too and relationships? What are they doing? Well here to tell us more about just this is our guest for today Saida Desilets, master of energy cultivation from the Taoist tradition. We’re talking about The Alchemy of Passion and building polarity.
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